then i agree with you as well in that . . . well, my definition of queer is loving people without any sort of boundaries or limits, you know? you just fall in love with people.
i guess my only is issue is that i don't see hawkeye *acting* on it. i think hawkeye has a lot of ways of showing love, and most of the time it's not sexual. does that make any sense? so i guess i could see him hooking up with a random dude, but not one of his nearest and dearest. in part, i think, because he is secretly worried that everything he touches he destroys. i don't have an issue with people reading him as sexual and acting on it, i just can't really see it myself. which then makes me wonder what is up with me, but that's a whole different can of worms.
(i have this thing where i think people can love each without a sexual component, and i think that's where i get hung up here. and in other places. possibly too hung up.)
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on 2011-10-14 06:15 pm (UTC)i guess my only is issue is that i don't see hawkeye *acting* on it. i think hawkeye has a lot of ways of showing love, and most of the time it's not sexual. does that make any sense? so i guess i could see him hooking up with a random dude, but not one of his nearest and dearest. in part, i think, because he is secretly worried that everything he touches he destroys. i don't have an issue with people reading him as sexual and acting on it, i just can't really see it myself. which then makes me wonder what is up with me, but that's a whole different can of worms.
(i have this thing where i think people can love each without a sexual component, and i think that's where i get hung up here. and in other places. possibly too hung up.)