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raven ([personal profile] raven) wrote2013-02-10 08:56 pm

wedding planning notes

Not sure I ought to have to say this, but here it is anyway: I am allowed to make fun of Indian weddings. You - white, don't-they-last-four-days-and-they're-all-colourful-tee-hee, thoughtless you - are not. Getting married in a grey church in England is not a "normal" way to get married. Thanks, glad we've cleared that up.

Anyway, so. Wedding planning has taken its great leap forwards. The Scottish shindig now has a guest list, a photographer, (probably) a cake, (probably) a ceilidh band, two readers, two witnesses, a venue, a menu and even favours, ye gods. I need to get my dress altered and am cleverly combining this with [community profile] vidukon_cardiff (don't even ask). We still need a playlist, a script, a last-minute narrative resolution to a continuing spat re: canapés, and sixty-five tiny screwtop jars.

The Indian wedding has dates, venues, three documents in progress (schedule; historical and religious contexts, with footnotes; visa procedures, a beginner's guide) a vague guest list, invitation wording if not actual invitations (I drafted this yesterday while putting up with heckling from all sides), a cast of thousands, and a certain sense that Things Are Getting Done. Not by me, I hasten to add. But done.

My to-do list is still in three parts and synced between three devices. But... hurrah? I think?

(I think I shall pre-emptively declare 2014 the Year of the Hammock, With No To-Do Lists At All.)

(I hope to begin it in a houseboat in Srinagar.)

[identity profile] marymac.livejournal.com 2013-02-12 11:41 am (UTC)(link)
Two weddings and a houseboat Srinagar (photos, all the photos, I beg you) sounds about as perfect as possible. As does other people organising the life out of it!

If you're still looking for jam jars, my mum got 50 200ml ones online for about a tenner at Christmas. From this experience, I would advise trying to put anything hot or liquid in them, unless you have someone who fills test tubes for their day-job handy.

[identity profile] loneraven.livejournal.com 2013-02-12 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
All the photos, yes! <3 Lots of them. I am looking at around £50 for my jars right now, but I think 200ml may be a little big for my purposes. Where did your mum get hers, if you don't mind my asking?

[identity profile] marymac.livejournal.com 2013-02-13 08:03 am (UTC)(link)
Apparently they were 2oz, not 200ml, I'm a div and you'll probably want the size down, says mother and produced a link to really tiny jars. (http://www.jbconline.co.uk/shop/0-200ml-glass-jars/1oz-mini-jam-jar-with-caps/)

I come by my random information retention honestly, apparently.