My dear, my parents are planning my wedding to the point of telling me what to say, what to do, when to turn up and whom to invite. I'll be 27. It is an accident of circumstance. :)

(Btw, I mentioned to my mother last night that you were planning on coming - if it'd be at all helpful for your parents to speak to her (either as-my-mum or as-medical-professional-who-will-be-there) she'd be very happy to help.)