if it is a privilege and simultaneously a feature of queer experience.
I am pretty tired/hungover, so am not at my most eloquent, but this is how I see it, yes. We both, as you say and as I have waffled about before, have lots of aspects of het-privilege in our present situation and don't necessarily have that much in common with someone who has been a bulldyke since the cradle, but we still negotiate these waters as well, you know? And I am just jumpy about any suggestion, even if it is me reading paranoidly into things, that bi people's position as queers is inconstant or up for rejection.

*hugs*