"I wrote this in, like, an hour, and didn't get it betaed" Oh GOD, I couldn't agree more about that, I think it is an attempt at self preservation, and I get it, but it is such a turn off.

As for warnings, I have heard a lot of people mention the issue, but has there been some origin to the debate that I have missed?

I feel like that about red lipstick too, and I think it is awesome that you wore it around the house!